Chatting with an old friend the other day, he asked me hows the married life rocking. Although life is rocking well, but hubby dearest has indeed changed from the days of early matrimony.
He laughed and so did I, for its the expected thats always surprisingly unexpected. When we fall in love, we promise to ourselves that our relationship would be the most different from the others. We would never stop writing poems, or holding doors, or buying flowers for each other. We would always take out time from our busiest of schedules and remain lovers first - everything else later.
And then we get married.
Writing poems is infantile, gatemen are there to hold the doors, flowers are too darn expensive, time is money and love is a funny new definition.
And thats when one realizes, we're not that different at all...
Comments
things certainly change one u get married...for some reason there's an element of that love which 'used to be' missing!
made cooler by harry on April 1, 2006 11:45 PM
well, thats what mature love is :)
made cooler by Dhaval Faria on April 2, 2006 9:45 AM
Love - well I would term this word the most decisive one. We don't ever stop loving our loved one's but this word keeps on shuttling it's position inside our brain.
made cooler by Sarthak Taneja on April 2, 2006 8:27 PM
Harry: Am still trying to figure out whether that element can even exist in a matrimonial framework. So far, it seems like its pretty extinct once you're married.
Dhaval: :P I like the way you think!
Sarthak: I guess the definition changes everyday, only the contrast keeps getting more stark as time passes.
made cooler by Lime on April 3, 2006 11:39 AM
heh thx.. yeah atually its a mature love.. when ur fresh in love.. u care abt all small stuffs, flowers, meeting, etc... but when ur love becomes mature, you dont care about small things and you start caring about relationship :).
made cooler by Dhaval Faria on April 3, 2006 12:35 PM
Dhaval: I guess thats the best way to put it - focusing on the 'greater' things in life :) Suddenly I feel better about the whole thing - thanks! :D
made cooler by Lime on April 3, 2006 1:17 PM
glad that I make you feel better :).
made cooler by Dhaval Faria on April 3, 2006 1:24 PM